Why Things Change In The Relationship?

Oh yea, women please, please take good care of yourself, keep looking sexy for him, keep fit, keep that figure which attracted him in the first place and better yet look hotter than ever. Don’t let your body go and start putting on weight. Think of it if your man met you while you were slim, fit and looking sexy which is what attracted him why would you allow yourself to change. Six months or more years down the line when you start asking yourself or telling him that he doesn’t look at you anymore or why is he all of a sudden looking at other women the way you want him to. Then ask yourself what you are not doing right. So keep in mind its all about excitement. Keep him excited at all times.

I know you will say that that you got a lot on your mind and you haven’t got time and you got no money to spend. But trust me if you were single and in the same situations and was dating you would find the money or a way to look your best and look sexy. You don’t always have to buy to look sexy and be exciting. Be creative. Not having you man interested in you is even more stressful. So please take hid and start making things more exciting in the relationship starting today. It is never too late. I guarantee you an exciting change will be noticeable in his interest from the day you start.

So you ask, “what about him, doesn’t he have to make an effort to?” Ah ha, I thought you would never ask. Of course he has to make an effort with his self because if he doesn’t the woman will start having wondering eyes. All I have to say is men keep the sexy handsomeness, keep fit, make that body look solid and treat your woman right and she is yours forever. Don’t be lazy and always into those video game, staying out late without her or always with your friends or just sit on the couch and drink all day and paying no attention to your woman. Your woman is yours to keep so make the effort, if not someone else will have her and you don’t want that if you love her. If you don’t love her let her go.

WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

There are several reasons why men cheat.

Which ever the reason it is just not right for anyone to cheat neither man nor woman.

• A man will cheat because maybe he and his woman never see eye to eye.

• A man will cheat because his woman doesn’t pay attention to him.
• A man will cheap if he has a nagging woman that don’t know when to stop which is a big turn off for most men.
• A man will cheat because of peer pressure.
• A man will cheat because he found someone that can listen to him and try to understand where he is coming from.
• A man will cheat because he wants great sex and is not getting it from his woman.
• A man will cheat because his woman let her self go and stop looking attractive.
• A man will cheat because there is no excitement in the relationship.
• A man will cheat because he is bored in the relationship.
• A man will cheat because he doesn’t feel appreciated.
• A man will cheat because he doesn’t feel welcomed when he gets home.
• A man will cheat because of fear of commitment.
• A man will cheat as a form of stress relief.
• A man will cheat because of emotional escape.
• A man will cheat because you let him.

You should always consider your man. You should ask him that whether he is being satisfied in the relationship. Maybe you the woman just don’t know how to satisfy your man. Maybe you don’t satisfy him. I don’t know, but, I believe firmly that there is no excuse for cheating. People who cheat whether it’s physically or emotionally (having feelings for someone else) are just too immature to be a man/woman and are wick with low self esteem.

You may not agree with a lot of things I have said but take this from me. If you feel that the relationship is not working and you have tried to make it work in good reason then end it before more hurt is done. Give your man the benefit of the doubt. Unless he had a history of cheating or he has cheated once, don't immediately think he can and will cheat. It defeats the purpose of trusting your partner and how can you trust him if at the back of your mind, you're already thinking that he will cheat on you one day?

Come on ladies, if you have been cheated on before it doesn’t mean that the next man will cheat.

One thing I believe in is that when someone cheats in a relationship it means something is not right or isn’t going right. It could be sex or just dam right unhappy but as I said before cheating is just is just not right and really disrespectful. Stop letting your past prevent you from having the type of relationship you want with your man. Always ask your self why did he cheat and if you get the opportunity, then ask him why if you both still together, or ask him if he is now your ex partner. If it is a genuine answer you will know and use that knowledge to better yourself and the next relationship you end up in. Good luck.

Remember excitement and good sex is one of the most forgotten concepts to a Blissful relationship.